TY - JOUR T1 - THe before AU - Frank J Y1 - 2012/03/07 N1 - 10.1001/jama.2012.200 JO - JAMA SP - 921 EP - 921 VL - 307 IS - 9 N2 - Instead I take a deep breath, pressing each number slowly, cautiously, drawing out the moment before the burst. The burst of your plans and your dreams and your future. I stall for time, asking if this is a good time, are you alone, do you have a pen and paper? You set the phone down and I hear you call to your partner, herd the kids downstairs, step quickly back to the phone, and pick it up. ā€œI’m ready.ā€ SN - 0098-7484 M3 - doi: 10.1001/jama.2012.200 UR - http://dx.doi.org/10.1001/jama.2012.200 ER -