RT Journal A1 Basile MA T1 THe widower surgeon’s lament JF JAMA JO JAMA YR 2009 FD April 22 VO 301 IS 16 SP 1636 OP 1636 DO 10.1001/jama.2009.381 UL http://dx.doi.org/10.1001/jama.2009.381 AB